Dear Moms,

If you’ve recently received an autism diagnosis for your child between the ages of 2 and 4, you may be experiencing a whirlwind of emotions – confusion, worry, and even fear about what lies ahead. One essential aspect of early intervention for autism is Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy. I’m here to shed light on what ABA is, how it works, and what you can expect during this journey, allaying any concerns you may have about this evidence-based therapy.

ABA is a comprehensive and individualized therapeutic approach based on the principles of behaviorism. It focuses on understanding how behavior is influenced by the environment and aims to bring about positive changes in your child’s behavior and overall development.

How Does ABA Work?

Individualized Assessment: Every child with autism is unique, and ABA recognizes that. Before commencing therapy, a certified behavior analyst will conduct a thorough assessment of your child’s strengths, challenges, and specific needs.

  • Setting Clear Goals: Based on the assessment, the analyst will develop measurable goals to target specific behaviors and skills to enhance your child’s social, communication, self-help, and cognitive abilities.
  • Positive Reinforcement: ABA uses positive reinforcement to encourage desired behaviors. This means your child will be praised, rewarded, or given positive attention when they display the desired behavior. This approach fosters motivation and a positive learning environment.
  • Data-Driven Approach: ABA therapy is highly structured and data-driven. Progress is continually measured and analyzed to ensure your child is making meaningful advancements toward their goals.
  • Breaking Down Complex Skills: Complex skills are broken down into smaller, achievable steps. Your child will gradually master these steps, leading to the acquisition of more complex abilities over time.
  • Natural Environment Teaching (NET): ABA therapists often utilize NET, where they incorporate teaching moments into your child’s natural daily activities, making learning more relevant and applicable to real-life situations.


What to Expect from ABA Therapy?

Collaborative Approach: As a mother, your active involvement in your child’s therapy is invaluable. ABA therapists work closely with parents to ensure consistency and generalization of skills across various settings.

  • Play-Based Learning: ABA therapy for toddlers often involves play-based activities, as young children learn best through play and exploration.
  • Empowering Independence: ABA focuses on empowering your child to become more independent and develop essential life skills that will aid them throughout their lives.
  • Progress and Patience: Progress is a journey, not an overnight achievement. Celebrate even the smallest victories, and be patient with both yourself and your child as they learn and grow.


Addressing Concerns about ABA Therapy:

Fear of Rigid Approaches: ABA has evolved significantly, and modern ABA therapy takes a much more flexible and child-centered approach. Therapists aim to build rapport and create a positive, enjoyable experience for your child.

  • Worries about “Changing” the Child: ABA does not seek to change your child’s fundamental personality but rather to enhance their strengths and minimize challenging behaviors that may impede their progress.
  • Myths about Lack of Empathy: ABA therapists are compassionate and caring professionals who understand the emotions and needs of your child. They will work diligently to establish a strong bond with your little one.


Remember, early intervention is key, and ABA therapy has shown remarkable success in promoting positive outcomes for children with autism. As a board-certified behavior analyst, I encourage you to reach out to qualified professionals and trust in the process. With your love and support, your child can reach their full potential.

You’ve got this, Mom!